A Swingers Podcast - The Mizzy Bender Show

A Swingers Party Success and So Much More!

Today, Spencer and I recap our our latest swingers party adventure, Candyland, which was an amazing success. Through the conversation we share what's been going on the last few weeks, including our silly banter that you can't get enough of.
 
Catch me LIVE May 17th, 5pm EST on Instagram @sdclifestylersclub as we chat all things swingers lifestyle.
 
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Background:
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

I Want to be a Swinger, But my Culture Held Me Back!

Were you raised with a specific mindset or culture, making you feel like exploring your sexuality was forbidden? Listen in as Elba explains her thoughts through life living in Puerto Rico at a young age, to now being able to be her free swinger self in the United States. 
 
To Learn more about Elba:
www.gynisarts.com
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2SskJoYTwAXseVZMogdAJ8?si=SERFp10fSB6wn1g_oXIg8A
https://youtube.com/@hablaclaromano
 
STD Testing:
https://www.cdc.gov/std/prevention/screeningreccs.htm
 
Background:
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Unicorn to Married Swinger - Hear all about it!

Stephanie was a unicorn who turned married swinger. Listen in as she tells her journey, sharing the ups and downs of exploring such an open lifestyle.  We were lucky enough to also have Jim jump on, her husband, to share his perspective of joining a lifestyle he was adamant against. 
 
Background:
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Swingers Lifestyle Etiquette from the Male Perspective

Are you curious on what kind of etiquette you should follow when becoming a swinger? Elliott and I talk through so many thoughts from a married mans perspective to his early days as a single gentleman. Listen in as we lay down the law.  lol. But seriously, its all up for discussion. 
 
About Elliott: https://linktr.ee/elliottpness
elliottpness.com / @elliottpness across all social media platforms
After being picked up by a couple on NYE 11 years ago, Elliott P. Ness has been active in the alternative lifestyle. He started as a single male and interacted in the swinger and BDSM spaces which quickly opened up doors in the adult industry. Now married, Elliott works with a number of Onlyfans creators and cam models, as well as swinger clubs and groups up and down the East Coast as he does everything he can to make the two industries he loves most a little bit better each day. 

Swingers Just Having Fun!

Through all the laughing and giggling, listen to Spencer and I banter on everyday life things as we talk through what's been happening lately. Spencer shares his thoughts on Winters Kiss, our first swinger event of the year and so much more. 
 
Background:
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Kindness and Other Kinks

This weeks guest is Jon a/k/a HiThereCatsuit the host of What Women* (*and other wonderful humans) Want podcast. After being a guest on his show last year, I absolutely had to invite him on to mine 
 
His perspective on kindness as it relates to the kink world is something I really wanted to highlight. It's simple yet so powerful!
 
Social Links - Linktr.ee/whatwomenwantpodcast
Jon a/k/a HiThereCatsuit has been hosting the What Women* (*and other wonderful humans) Want podcast since October of 2020 with over 150 episodes. The show was just named the “Official Podcast of FetishCon” An avid writer and contributor on FetLife, Jon wrote a column about men and their unsolicited dick pics. The response led him to brainstorm with NookieNotes of Dating Kinky to create the podcast. 
 
As Jon, the host has an award winning background in broadcasting going back more than 35 years and has appeared as a talent on national networks as well as regional and local stations. He has 7 Emmy Awards for his work behind the scenes, and also designs all the graphic elements for the show’s social media. In addition, he has been a public speaker and has even presented a TEDx talk about how people treat each other. 
In the scene, HiThereCatsuit is a bottom who is known for their trademark spandex suits which led to his name, as so many people just said “HiThereCatsuit” when they would walk into a party. They are also known for his notebooks which they share with people they connect with to keep inventory of small victories. They are active in the Cincinnati area and have taught at Kinky Kollege Spring Break 2022, Coastal Carolina Fetish Fair 2022 and for TES-NYC in their TESTuesday online series, and the Owl’s Nest Online Education Fundraiser. They are a regular host and presenter with Dating Kinky as well and appears on all of their big weekend events.
 
Background:
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Welcome Back Swingers and Alternative Sexy Humans!

Yahoooooooooooo! Its time for season 4. The Mizzy Bender show is back with all sorts of swingers education, stories, interviews and so much more. 
 
Background:
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

That’s A Swingers Wrap!

As we wait at the ferry dock after our last travel of the season, I record the season finally with Spencer. A little tired, a little silly, but a whole lot thankful.
Happy Holidays and spectacular New Year. I'll be back February 2, 2023.
 
Background:
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Let’s Talk Hedo with Beyond Lifestyles

Background:
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Lets Get Lexual with Lexi Sylver

Last year I was so excited to be one of the four invited guest speakers to celebrate the one year anniversary of Mating Season written by Lexi Sylver. During the anniversary event I had the pleasure and honor to read part of "Trick Shot" one her erotic stories which was so sexy and an amazing experience. Although completely out of my comfort zone reading out loud in front of others, I was able to absorb and feel the energy of the other guests as well. Since then, I've formed such amazing relationships that I absolutely cherish.
 
After the book anniversary I invited Lexi Sylver to be a guest on The Mizzy Bender Show, my audible podcast. Time and hectic schedules put a bit of a delay on the broadcast of the episode... BUT its time to release the beast!
 
To learn more: www.LexiSylver.com
 
Background:
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.