The Mizzy Bender Show - Swingers Podcast
Swingers Party Success by Mindbender Parties

Swingers Party Success by Mindbender Parties

August 9, 2022
Listen as I recap our swingers white party from the beginning of travel to today. Stayed tuned for an upcoming blog with additional commentary attached to some photos. I just have to wait to receive the goods from our photographer, Chris Addams.
 
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As a couple, should you play alone as your first Swingers experience?

As a couple, should you play alone as your first Swingers experience?

August 2, 2022
Gosh, it feels like forever! Welcome back after our summer break.  During my time off, I came across a scenario with someone that is learning about the swingers lifestyle. Very new outlook with some red flags. Give a listen, see what you think. 
 
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.
 
Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.
Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!
Mizzy’s Swinging Birthday Recap with Mr. Mindbender

Mizzy’s Swinging Birthday Recap with Mr. Mindbender

July 26, 2022
Its been a couple days since I've hosted a #morningswithmizzy. It's been way too hectic with travel to The Paradise Club vending #mizzysboutique and continuous house guests for Mizzy's Birthday Camping Bash and The Hamptons White Party.
 
Mr. Mindbender and I share some of the journey with you in this special edition of Mornings with Mizzy, recorded Monday, July 25, 2022. I'll be posting my blog full of photos and videos soon, so be sure to check back! Until then, listen to the ridiculousness we bring the the table.
Setting Healthy Boundaries When Becoming a Swinger

Setting Healthy Boundaries When Becoming a Swinger

July 7, 2022
Setting healthy boundaries when entering the swingers lifestyle will be something I always advocate for.  Over the last few episodes, we've been discussing the reasons why one wants to be a swinger. Thinking about out our desires and turn-ons and how to communicate them to our partners.  The flow of conversation will help you build the basic foundation to a healthy relationship in the alternative lifestyle world. 
 
 
*Referencing page 71-73 in the Ethical Slut, Edition 2.
 
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.
 
Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.
Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!
Fulfilling our Swinging Desires

Fulfilling our Swinging Desires

July 5, 2022
Today we discuss turn ons that lead to fulfilling our desires after lasts weeks discussion on what brought us to the alternative lifestyle.  Our conversations are going to be a continuous look into our mind, body and soul, allowing us to live our best healthy selves and relationships. 
 
 
*Referencing page 175-177 in the Ethical Slut, Edition 2.
 
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.
 
Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.
Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!
Getting Back to Lifestyle Basics

Getting Back to Lifestyle Basics

June 30, 2022

This is a deep dive look inside as to why we participate within the alternative lifestyle.  Hear my thoughts, as they've developed and changed over time, making me who I am in the lifestyle today. 

 
 
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.
 
Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.
Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!
But She Promised! Then backed out!

But She Promised! Then backed out!

June 28, 2022
But She Promised! Then backed out! Community submitted segment. Has your partner promised to participate in swinging and then ultimately change their mind? Do you hold resentment because of it?
 
Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valued at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th.
 
 
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.
 
Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.
Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!
It’s OK to Take a Break from the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle

It’s OK to Take a Break from the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle

June 24, 2022
It's okay to take a break from the swingers / alternative lifestyle when you and or your relationship need it.  Listening to our gut and communicating our needs is critical.
 
Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valuesd at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th. 
 
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.
Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!
 
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Ghosting … But Why!?

Ghosting … But Why!?

June 22, 2022
Today we discuss a community submitted vent on ghosting.  How frustrating is it to invest so much time into a new human, plan a date and then BAM! No show! 
 
Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valuesd at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th. 
 
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.
Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!
 
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Jealousy in the Lifestyle

Jealousy in the Lifestyle

June 16, 2022
Community Submitted Topic: I was wondering if you did a podcast or video that talks about how to stop being jealous in the lifestyle or if you could do one!?! My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and we love this lifestyle but as our feelings have really grown stronger for one another I find myself starting to get really jealous of the other girls he plays with and I know in my heart that my goal is for both of us to be freely ourselves and do whatever we want without having any negative feelings. Would you be able to point me in the right direction if you've done that topic or I'd greatly appreciate it if you could do a podcast/video on it!!!
 
Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valuesd at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th. 
 
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
 
Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
 
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.
Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!
 
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